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The Hurting

Being in a relationship comes with many pros. It’s fun. Being in love, getting to live life with the person you love, the dates, etc. Personally, Kyron has become so much more than just my boyfriend. He’s my best friend, he’s family to me. There isn’t anyone else that I’d want to spend my time with. But, even when you’re the most in love, even when you’re in a healthy and happy relationship there’s still downs that come with that relationship.

When you see couples on the internet, you mostly just see the good parts. The parts of the relationship that seem so perfect. You don’t see the “behind the scenes”. You really just see what they want you to see. I can’t lie to you and tell you being in a relationship means that you’re always going to be happy, even with being in a healthy one. There’s times where each individual struggles with their own things and even without wanting it to, it can sometimes affect the relationship a lot. There’s been times when I’m feeling down and I take it out on Kyron. If I’m being honest, these past few days haven’t been the best for me. Luckily, I’m blessed to have someone as understanding as Kyron. When you’re in a relationship and committed to someone, you have to have a lot of patience when things like that happen, you have to be able to understand that your partner is going through something and you just have to walk through it with them. You can’t go into a relationship with the mindset that you can only be there for the good parts or that it will always be perfect because, it won’t. There’s gonna be days where it hurts. A lot of people make that mistake. They just want to be in the relationship when it’s easy, and that’s what tears the relationship apart. You have to be willing to work through everything that comes your way, you have to fight for your relationship, for that love you have for each other. Don’t give up.


With Kyron and I doing long distance, it only makes these things harder. Aside from personal things going on, I get very impatient when I can’t see him. It makes me sad but also very frustrated and I tend to take that out on him... which leads to arguments at times. We obviously do have our disagreements, arguments, or whatever you’d like to call it, and we both absolutely hate it.

It’s hard and pretty annoying having to argue with someone over the phone or text. You can’t look at the person in the face, your tone may also seem different especially over text and it can make the argument even worse. Another thing that makes relationships hard is when your loved one is sad. Those times when you’re not able to physically be there with them. I know that when Kyron is feeling down, it’s one of the worst feelings ever... knowing that I can’t be there to help him, knowing that words aren’t always enough to make him feel better.

These things make a relationship hard... it’s what effects my relationship with Kyron sometimes. It sucks and it’s very draining, and emotionally tiring for us. Relationships are definitely not always just “rainbows and sunshines”. For any couple, really. There’s plenty of times where you’ll go through your tough times, but I promise it’s all worth it in the end. These things are what make your relationship real. True love is never going to be easy but, when you really love someone, you’re just willing to do anything and everything for them. You go out of your way for that person.

Every time Kyron and I have a bad day, or we argue about something it only makes us realize how much we truly love each other. It makes our bond stronger every time. And, when we each have our own bad days we want nothing more but to talk to each other and be there for each other. We’ve made sure that even on bad terms, we come to each other for that comfort. It’s just a bond you have to build with your partner. Together! Always remember that relationships are not one sided. You go through it together, and you have to get through it together.

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